Let one's own zero clearing regularly
love99 | 10 July, 2009 03:35Let one's own zero clearing regularly
People live to thirty years of age, live after thirty or forty years old, there must be views, inherent ideas of different common customs in the head, there is various pollution. It is exactly that it makes our life no longer young that this kind is polluted, let us lose the life of a lot of creativity and life. People begin to worry losing existing reputation, status and resources of different relations, give up these things, let oneself get back to the most primitive state, has turned into a very terrible thing. It is exactly this kind of worry and terrible, the more make people make the common customs more and more, curry favour with, not to strive to make progress, pleasing this world by every possible means, lose the most essential thing in the human nature step by step, have lost the most creative thing in the human nature.
A friend of Peking University tells me a story: When the president of Harvard University comes to Peking University, explain a piece of own personal experiences. He had three month off to the school, then told one's own family one year, don't ask I go somewhere, I will phone family every week, the newspaper one is safe. Then this headmaster goes to the countryside of the south of U.S.A., go to the farm to work, go to the hotel to brush the plate. Make man-hour in field, give a piggyback Mr. inhale pieces of cigarette, or speak a few words stealthily to one's own fellow workers, feel very glad. He looks for a job of brushing the plate, only work for four hours in a restaurant finally, boss and he have checked out, say to him: Old man, you are too slow when brushing the plate, you are unemployed. After this headmaster gets back to Harvard, get back to the working environment that oneself is familiar with, but feel that has changed another world: It was a kind of symbol, a kind of honor on this seat originally. The life of these three months, changed one's own view on life again, let oneself reply location once, clear once and zero.
In this world, one wants to give up one's own existing thing, is a very difficult course. Several years ago, when we several young people plunged into the commercial sea, ran the company, borrowed the east wind that Deng GongNan patrolled, let us become one batch getting better off earlier, has finished the primitive accumulation of the initial capital, there is a bigger one " The stage " . Short a a few years, capital scale expand rapidly, until business circles become the miracle that everybody is discussing. It was various honors, flatter, fighting with both open and secret means between the partners that was followed. I realized suddenly one day that should get rid of this kind of state as the person a little over 30 years old, leave this company, put oneself at most primitive state again, let oneself be resumed. Another reason is before this, it is lucky that someone succeeds in summing up me as, and has summarized six pieces of good luck quantitatively. China of initial stage for reform and opening-up, succeeds in seeming to either come from power, or come from good luck. What I valued even more is improvement and cultivation of one's own ability. So I reach a decision, want to let oneself become the penniless state again, temper one's own ability, prove one's own ability. Different life
Just left, a lot of things changed greatly, totally exceeded my expectation, my partner has held a conference of criticizing for me, the theme is to radically reform. I will lodge protest at once, this partner is very candid too, say to me: "Lend your name to me, one year after I scold you, after my prestige is established, after the company is steady, I will not scold you again. " Seeming to be my mistake, I am too stingy, a small name is unwilling to borrow others. The exchanges with me that the timid colleague has not dared, trim one's sails, the vilain flattering is far away from me and leave especially. In the daytime I have not felt that there is much agony, but in every evening, are always repeating a dream constantly, dream a lot of people are shedding tears, do not allow me to leave, shouting constantly: " we need you! " I am shedding tears constantly too. ,etc. after waking up,it find always have pillow by many tear.
Recently, I have told this dream one study the psychological friend, she explains, have the dream whether they need you are you lonely too, you need them. This dream has been repeated one suits of abnormal sweating for a lot of nights, at last one day, I fell ill, flowed, shock is poured in the bathroom. After I wake up, some of physical power resume, I make a phone call to the wife in foreign countries, she will notify in Beijing at once an elder sister whose surname is Wang will look after me. This experience, have a kind of feeling of remoulding oneself thoroughly to my psychology, really let oneself get back to the most primitive state of human nature bravely. The psychology is strong, the will becomes strong.
It must be true and living naturally that one wants to live in this world while living. Don't afraid of, lose one's own around thing, for get things these go charming generation, fawn on customs by every possible means, charming and refined too. A singer is called Wang Fei, always shows the whites of one's eyes for the audience, the song of singing oneself, not exchanging with audience, stick to one's old way, everybody likes her very much yet, think her " cool " ,Why? We need the self- one, have things of the distinction, need true thing.
Some people are laid off now, been reduced the staff, someone seems to feel it will fall down. In fact, this has nothing amazing, planning system for decades, spoil people a lot of inertia lazily, spoil, spoil, when we get back to the reset condition, we are sure to feel life is very bright.
Not long ago, we wrote a brochure of " tea was full ", several friends asked us, not good why tea is full? Why are things precipitated in people's brain the more the worse? I say, we only make oneself in the state of a kind of empty fairy, have no state born in one kind, in a kind of state free from contamination. Only in this way ability is put into intelligence for the cup like an empty cup, put into creativity. If a cup is full, without space, it turns into a cup used for one.
Most people in choose, standard that consult think someone else make always, thing that others do rest assured but this can only repeat, will not have creativity and new vitality.
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